Don’t let your lovemaking be stuck in a rut. It is nice to have a go-to position or routine when having sex with your partner. They’re surefire ways to get you both to orgasm. But if it is starting to feel like a chore, perhaps you should switch things up.
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If you feel like you’re doing the same old things, below are 10 kinky sex ideas to try!
- Try Different Positions
Instead of your usual positions, try switching it up. For example, if missionary is your go-to, then try hitting it, doggy style. It may feel awkward at first but you’ll be able to find your groove. New positions may let you hit different angles and feel different sensations to heighten your pleasure.
For an entirely different experience, let your partner be on top. And if you’re up for it, let them rail you either by themselves or with a strap on.
- Hair Pulling
Hair pulling ranks relatively low on the list of kinky sex ideas. But don’t be so quick to dismiss it especially if you’ve never done it before! Start slowly by gently tugging on their hair as you’re thrusting. Always check to see their reactions and how well they react to it. Or, if they’re not a fan, you can have your partner pull on your hair!
- Use Restraints
Most people think of restraints when they think of kinky sex ideas. It is arousing to have your partner lying helpless. So, now’s the time to bust out those handcuffs, ropes, or even scarves!
Bind their hands first and make sure it’s not too tight. When they’re comfortable enough after the first few sessions, you can also restrain their feet or even gag them!
- Spanking
Kinky sex isn’t just about spanking your partner. But it can serve as a gateway for the raunchier stuff if your partner is on the shy side. Their butt is obviously the first place to start, but you can also gently slap their tits or their face. Try doing it the next time you’re doing the deed.
- Watch Porn
It may sound a bit unusual but you could try watching porn together! This will let your partner know more about your turn ons and you can learn about theirs. It’s also a great way to look for inspiration on what positions you could try next!
- Look But Don’t Touch
There is something inherently arousing about voyeurism. It occurs when you can only look but not touch your partner. You can sit back and watch your partner touch themselves or you can have your partner watch as you pleasure yourself.
- Indulge in Your Fetishes
Releasing your kinky side would not be complete without indulging in one or two of your fetishes. Whether it is a foot fetish, anal sex, or role playing. Everybody has their dirty secret. Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it as they say.
- Incorporate Sex Toys
To amp up your lovemaking, add your sex toys into the mix. You can use cock rings, a dildo, or a vibrator to enhance your pleasure. Using sex toys can also enhance your performance and make you last longer. For some, it’s also a great alternative if your partner isn’t into oral sex.
- Engage in a Threesome
If your partner is up for it, you could engage in a threesome. Being with another person besides your partner or watching your partner be with another person can turn you on. However, be sure you are doing it with someone you trust. And your partner feels safe and comfortable with the arrangement before proceeding.
- Film Yourselves
You’ve watched porn, but have you thought about making porn? You’re not streaming it or releasing it anywhere. But, the thought of watching yourself get off and get lost in each other just might be the little nudge you need. It can be thrilling to watch yourselves and it can make you more enthusiastic.
However, just like with threesomes, ask your partner’s consent before filming. It is also important that you keep the video securely hidden or even password protected.
Top 5 Toys to Ensure a Steamy Night
TYO Lubricant
Lubricant should always be in your arsenal. They’re not exactly toys but you should always stock up on them. Whether you’re looking to reduce friction in your solo sessions or you’re after more slip when doing the deed with your partner, lubes has got you.
TYO’s is a water-based lubricant, which means it won’t feel sticky or leave any unpleasant odor. You or your partner are also less likely to have allergic reactions to this lube as well. Use this on sex toys or to prep your partner, one thing’s for sure, your intercourse will be a hit!
KYO Capsule
If you’re after a more intense orgasm, then try this vibrating capsule. It consists of a small capsule that produces vibrating pulses against your manhood. At the same time, it also stimulates your deep tissues and blood flow, giving you a more powerful orgasm.
You can also use this capsule on your partner to enhance your foreplay before getting to the main event. This device comes with 12 vibrating patterns that will have them rolling their eyes back in pleasure!
Beautiful Legs – Nakadashi Life
Does your partner have a foot fetish? If so, you might want to try this sex toy in your next session. It consists of the entire lower torso, complete with legs, feet, and toenails. You can even bend this doll in various positions!
What’s also great about this toy is its ultra-soft skin, which offers a realistic sensation. You or your partner can stroke its thighs, foot, or even insert your shaft in its pussy tunnel!
Kemono Fox Girl Torso
Up for an enhanced role play? Try this sex doll from Kemono. It is a sex doll equipped with a fox tail butt plug. This’ll make your animal roleplay fantasies come alive! The doll weighs 17kg, which is enough to provide you a stable foundation as you thrust into it.
It also has two holes, an anal and vaginal tunnel so you and your partner can choose which cavern you prefer. Better yet, why not penetrate it at the same time? It can be moved into different positions, so it will surely give you a realistic and mind-blowing experience.
KYO Crystal Mouth
Most oral sex toys aren’t see-through but the crystal mouth will surely blow you away! This onahole has a transparent body that lets you see your manhood as you use it. It is also dual-ended as it has luscious lips on one side and a pussy on the other.
The best part? You can twist and turn the device so you can feel its different sensations. Have your partner jerk you off so you’ll be at their mercy. With this sex toy, your night will just get kinkier!
Bottom Line
Lovemaking can get old if you keep doing the same things. Don’t let it become a chore! Even if you’re in a long-term relationship, married, or trying things out with someone, you can always benefit from enhancing your sexual encounters.
Look to these kinky sex ideas for tips and inspiration on how to spice things up in the bedroom! And remember, always make sure your partner is comfortable before going to town!